I Hate my Life & What to do now?
Most of us have experienced that pivotal peak of pain, anger or frustration in which we want to scream “I hate my life.” Yet, the feeling that a dark cloud has specifically settled over us and our experiences can feel pretty isolating. The truth is, no matter how singled out or overwhelmed we feel, and no matter what area we are struggling in, we are not alone. More than half of U.S. workers are unhappy with their job. One in 10 Americans struggles with depression. All of us have moments of utter despair. Escaping from this hopeless-seeming state may feel impossible. Yet, in reality, we are not doomed, and we are not powerless. No matter what our circumstances, we can all learn tools to help us emerge from the darkest moments in our lives.
Hope.
This is the one thing that keeps us going every day, especially when times are tough.
Hope for a better future, hope that whatever efforts you’re making today will pay off tomorrow, and hope that one day you will live the life of your dreams (assuming you aren’t already).
However, so many people get stuck in this frame of mind that the cards they’ve been dealt are so unfortunately wrong that they’re destined for eternal unhappiness.
Because you are not able to understand life. Please read the following this may help.
1) Life would give you both happiness and sorrow. Accept this.
2) You are not the only one to face problems.
3) If you believe in spirituality it makes it easier. Life is an opportunity to improve yourself.
4) People in depressed situations have to make two choices, first one is whether to live or die. This choice is actually not a choice as you are not allowed to take your life if that was the case you would not have taken birth at the first place.
5) Now second choice is how to live either with the attitude of fighting and positivity or to live with regret and excuses. This will make the difference between who you are and who you will be.
Decide what you want to do in life. Do what you feel happy to do and keep trying till your last moment.
The answer is quite simple because you want to hate it !
No matter you got a new job, salary hike, a new girlfriend, met your favourite celebrity, you hate your life because you want to hate it.
I have seen People content with two square meals and people anxious and depressed and drinking in pubs.
I have seen happy singles , unhappy couples and vice versa.
Friend you don’t need a reason to smile.
You don’t need a reason to be happy.
You don’t need a Reason to live and love.
You don’t need a Reason whatsoever to live.
You are very lucky to have been born a s Human and being pampered by a family, be lauded by the most powerful element on earth HUMAN brain. You can do wonders if you wish…so why hate it. Why hate if we have so much in our possession?
You need to ask this yourself.
“Is it you who hate life or is it you hating the things around happing in your life”?
I’m not sure why you actually hate ‘life’, but I’m betting a lot of things piss you off on a daily basis
Please Read I hate everything – from this world to myself
People are frustrating, stubborn, sometimes stupid, and often loud.
The TV and Internet are full of shit, and seem hell-bent on making people more useless.
Traffic sucks, nobody can drive worth a damn.
Your boss/teacher is quite possibly Satan.
Everyone keeps giving you unsolicited advice, and you can’t say STFU, because then… //drama.
There’s no easy fix for this. I just avoid things that I know are going to shit all over my day and/or mood, and try to do things I like whenever I can to get the taste of the world out of my mouth. If it’s venting you need, go to 4chan and just… pick anybody. I swear to fuck, that’s all anybody is there for.
Good luck, don’t go urban commando on anyone.
You don’t.
Yes, you don’t hate your life my friend. It is the circumstances that you got into, or the decision that you made in past that led to the feeling of frustration that you call hate. Hate is a very strong word.
Nobody can and should tell you why you feel this way. The best person to ask this question would be the guy/girl you see in the mirror. Better ask yourself, do a thorough self introspection and analyse the different aspects/decision and see what the actual reason is. Forget about things you have no control over or you can’t control in direct or indirect way.
Set a goal and work towards it, read some good books that you are interested in.
Meditate- Don’t let the negativity cross you.
Be positive.
Because we compare ourselves with other.
When a single person looks at a person in relationship they feel depressed about the fact that they are lonely and there is no one to understand them.
While a person bored of relationship when looks at singles enjoying with their friends, think that they shouldn’t have entered in relationship in the first place.
There can be also other facts like the environment you are raised in. Mostly everyone teenager is depressed in their life at one point of time, things like these are just unavoidable.
The only way to be happy happy is too stay calm no matter what’s the situation and sometimes ignorance can be a blessing in such cases. Since being ignorant does make a person fight their sad life emotionally.
Personally my life has been one of a hell, there was a time when was very depressed and gave up on everything but as I knew how this world works and how these things were just delusions or created due to the way I reacted to situations. I stopped caring after that.
Only way to enjoy life is chill and do what you like while ignoring society at same time.